What was the most challenging or intimidating sex act that you ended up really liking?
I'm not sure it's a sex act per se, but I'll let you decide. Months and months ago I started reading a blog that was pretty heavy on BDSM. The Dom in the couple frequently spanked his sub's pussy, and although she really seemed to enjoy it, it sounded appallingly painful to me. I saw it mentioned in enough other places that it was clear some women really love it. But I just couldn't see the appeal, and my thighs clenched protectively over my pussy whenever I read about it.
Fast forward several months, and one afternoon while I was tied up and helpless on the bed, D softly spanked my mostly closed pussy. And it felt soooooo good. So good. So he did it some more, getting a little rougher each time. Finally he let loose with about 10 good spanks over my clit and I nearly came.
Recently he did spank me until I came. I find this very odd because it turns out I really don't enjoy getting my ass spanked.
When was your wettest time?
I think it might have been the time we had amazing sex in a bamboo hut. It was sort of public because there were no windows and people were sitting right outside. And I think that the sense of danger got me really excited and insanely hot. I was gushing as soon as D slipped inside and it just didn't stop. You can read more here.
And thanks for playing today's round of Quick and Dirty with Liza (tm)!
Pussy-spanking is something about which we're very curious, having read about it extensively on the blogs we follow. It's not an idea that appeals to Jill unless we're in the heat of the moment, though she's admitted to wanting it during sex. She's yet to voice it while sex is happening, though, and as it's a relatively new turn-on for her, I've yet to indulge her as it simply doesn't occur to me.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the link to the bamboo hut story. We loved reading it the first time around, and a revisit sounds good right now.
It's very much worth a try. Doesn't have to be hard, just enough to get the sensation and see if it appeals. Good luck!
DeleteYou keep talking about how amazing D is with his fingers. Would love to hear about exactly what he does that feels so lovely.
ReplyDeleteThis may be fodder for a future post. It's a bit hard to explain, I think, but I will think about it.
DeleteI'm still very timid on the BDSM thing, but I really loved to bamboo hut story. Public sex is something I am also relatively innocent about, despite the many other adventurous things I have accomplished. I think it is the idea of being so very vulnerable in sharing the most intimate act a couple can share that draws out the excitement to the ultimate high. I long to find my courage at doing something such as this!
ReplyDeleteIt is exciting, but it's also something that doesn't really do it for everyone. And it doesn't have to. Most importantly, do what feels right to you!
DeleteI guess the old adage of, "Don't knock it until you try it," really means something here. Glad that you took a risk and ended up really liking it.
ReplyDeleteHaha, yep!
DeleteI absolutely adore pussy spanking, and this blog - another fine piece of writing Liza! <3 xo
ReplyDeleteThanks Miss A! I adore it, too. So glad I discovered that I do!
DeleteI'm glad you enjoyed something that maybe in your mind wouldn't be that great!
ReplyDeleteMy man does like to spank my clit, but strangely I get more physical pleasure from being spanked on the ass...
The first time Neo smacked mine I was blown away at how great it felt. I cannot wait to have him make me cum by only doing that.
ReplyDeleteLovely piece of smut as always Liza! Props to D ;)