There's no theme to this week's questions, and they are really very different!
When it comes to romantic involvement or sexual attraction/activity, do you have an upper or lower age limit?
I'm gonna' go with "it depends." I've never dated anyone more than about 8 years older than I am, and the minimum has been 1-2 years younger. I am attracted to both younger and older men, as well as men my own age, so I think it just depends on the person. Interestingly, I am only attracted to women in their mid-20s to late 30s.
That being said, I remember seriously crushing on a guy from summer camp when I was in early high school and he was a WHOLE GRADE YOUNGER. It was a scandal that he was younger and because of peer pressure I never got up the courage to hook up with him. Since he lived in another city it was probably for the best anyway.
For the sake of information, D and I are only months apart in age.
So you mention you love sexy sounds, are these sound files or porno's with your eyes closed? can you link to some?
Oh, this one is so wonderful. And easy. When I mention sexy sounds, I'm specifically talking about the sounds of women having orgasms. It doesn't matter if they are fucking, getting a handjob, or masturbating. They all sound lovely. In this post from last month I link to several audio files of women I know via their blogs and/or Twitter getting off and sounding beautiful doing it. I also enjoy audio from Sonic Erotica, a website that collects audio erotica specifically for people who are visually impaired (what a public service!), but it's hot for anyone.
Without naming names, obviously, describe three people you know in REAL life you would be okay having sex with.
D and I have "lists" that include real people, not just celebrities or actors/actresses we could hit without it "counting." I don't remember when these lists started, and honestly, I don't have a mental inventory of his. But it's kind of fun.
1) A friend of D's. He's very tall, sometimes he's in very good shape, and he has incredible blue eyes. When he's in good shape he's really quite hot. But more often than not he's got a bit of a beer gut, and that just doesn't do it for me.
2) A girl I know from work. She's very petite, also blue-eyed. Physically she is so different from me. She's shorter and just sort of tiny all over. I'm not an Amazon, but I'm tall enough, with sizable breasts and just curvier than she is. There's something very appealing about her body type to me.
3) A guy I used to work with. Also tall, in good shape. Dark hair, but I can't remember his eye color. He's a slightly bigger version of the physical type I'm usually attracted to, which is taller, fit, and built like a distance runner. We had a very flirtatious work relationship, and it would be fun to see where that could go in bed.
Have you ever played around with male chastity (you know, locking your man up and teasing him until he begs to cum)?
We haven't, and I don't think we ever would. This just isn't something that gets either of us hot. I understand why chastity and orgasm denial are appealing for some people. And occasionally D denies me. Not often, but sometimes. I think part of why this isn't so appealing to us is because of our long sexless streak. Neither of us wants to deny the other anything these days.
There you go! More than perhaps you wanted to know about my sexual proclivities.