I had several questions in the queue, and then got several more yesterday. I tried to answer some that have been waiting a little bit, as well as one new one. If I haven't answered your question here, don't worry! It will be included in a future edition!
Have you given a footjob/do you like having your toes sucked?
I have never given a footjob. I've never been with anyone who really desired this, and the few times I've stroked a cock with my feet it's been kind of awkward. I think it's because I have rather large feet for a woman (US size 9.5/EUR 40), and once you get both of them in there it's all feet all the time!
On the second part of your question--a big, fat yes. I love having my toes sucked. It's kind of a rare treat. Obviously I want my feet and toes to be sparkling fresh before sticking them in D's mouth, so this is a pleasure reserved for immediate post-shower/bath fucking.
The timing of this question was quite lovely because last week I was treated to some exquisite arch licking and toe sucking. We were in the middle of the bed and I was on my back, D on his knees in front of me with my ankles on his shoulders. I love, love, love this position because of the angle and the g-spot stimulation.
Shortly after he slid in, his mouth was on my toes and the sensation went straight to my pussy for an orgasm of stunning magnitude. He didn't stop, but kept licking the inside of my arches, the crease where toes meet foot, and each individual little piggy.
I know that some people have a serious fetish about feet and this is de rigeur for them to get off. And others think feet are skeevy and won't go near them. For me, feet are a potent erogenous zone, but they aren't my number one go-to spot. But in the right moment...oh, yes.
Have you ever tried using remote controlled vibrators, while out for a meal with friends for example?
Yes. I wrote about this wonderful experience and you can read about it here.
I really love @oandcori's latest photos on Flickr with the rope play. I've never done this and have no idea how it works. Have you tried this? What's the objective? Does rope play lead to sex? Or is it totally separate? Does the B Have to involve D,S&M??
I have never done rope play, although I think that the Japanese style of rope work called shibari is very beautiful. I'm sorry, but I can't really answer your question. My friend Mia Lee has been participating in some rope activities recently, and she has a few lovely posts on her blog Down the Rabbit Hole. BDSM is not a big part of our sex life, but from my experience and reading, each of those initials means something distinct, and one certainly doesn't need to involve all 4 at once.
Yes. I wrote about this wonderful experience and you can read about it here.
I really love @oandcori's latest photos on Flickr with the rope play. I've never done this and have no idea how it works. Have you tried this? What's the objective? Does rope play lead to sex? Or is it totally separate? Does the B Have to involve D,S&M??
I have never done rope play, although I think that the Japanese style of rope work called shibari is very beautiful. I'm sorry, but I can't really answer your question. My friend Mia Lee has been participating in some rope activities recently, and she has a few lovely posts on her blog Down the Rabbit Hole. BDSM is not a big part of our sex life, but from my experience and reading, each of those initials means something distinct, and one certainly doesn't need to involve all 4 at once.
Very well answered, Liza, especially the last question... I think you're absolutely right that each letter can be completely separate from the others.
ReplyDeleteAw, thanks! That last one is a doozy, since it's a little beyond our interests.
DeleteI've never really gotten the footjob thing. I understand that it's an incredibly popular activity, at least if mainstream porn is any indication. But it seems far too disconnected, for lack of a better word, to be much of a turn-on for me. I also can't imagine how much pleasure one might derive from a footjob, as it seems the giver would have to have the dexterity of a monkey in order to do it properly. And while I am attracted to women with pretty feet, my fetish isn't such that a woman using her feet would really make the experience that much more pleasurable. I'm not sure if Jill's feet are an erogenous zone for her, but I do know that it turns me on to suck her toes while we're fucking in the manner you describe. Haven't done that in awhile, actually. As I said, I'm not much of a foot fetishist.
ReplyDeleteI don't know that we'd ever try rope bondage - regardless of the skill involved and whether or not we might ever be able to pull it off, it seems far too involved and time-consuming for our purposes - but we agree that a nice karada is akin to a piece of fine art.
Jack, as you can tell, feet aren't the biggest thing for us, either. D likes a little toe sucking, but not to the extent I do. As for the rope, I would definitely give it a try at least once, partly because when it's done well it's such a work of art. However, I am not really submissive, so I don't know how I would enjoy the whole process. From what Mia and others describe, being tied like this contributes to a mental state for them that sounds pretty wonderful, but I'm not wired the same way.
DeleteOh and a note about the footjobs - they are incredibly difficult to give - toes and feet just weren't meant to hold and rub a cock! But I've given a few to the BF and he's gotten off really well from them - if anything its more of a visual than sensation, although the better I jack off the better.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, having toes sucked or feet licked can be incredibly sexy!
Since he's such a foot aficionado, I am sure he loves this! Given that it takes a million and half years to bring D to orgasm with a blowjob, I'd be there until the next millenium if I left the work to my feet!
DeleteFirst, the fact that you used the word "skeevy" made me fall in love with you all over again! My step-mom was from New York, and I think of her every time I use/hear it. It's not a widely known/used word, so people who DO know of it and use it appropriately are, obviously, AWESOME!
ReplyDeleteVincent's a big toes-in-the-mouth guy, giving and receiving. We don't do it a lot, but when we do, it adds so much. In fact, why don't we do it more...?
We, like you guys, don't participate much in BDSM, so while I find the rope work stunningly beautiful, I don't understand where it lies on the continuum of sex either. I'm curious though, because i DO see so much of it in the blogs I follow.
Haha, I don't know from where I appropriated skeevy, but sometimes no other word will do. More toe sucking last night. Thought I was going to pass out.
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