Wednesday, February 1, 2012

The 30 Minute Orgasm*

We covered my side of the bed with towels, ready for the possibility that we'd have a delicious, wet mess on our hands.

I lay back with my knees open while D liberally lubed my pussy. We don't usually use lube except for anal. This was the first departure from our usual routine. The lube (Liquid Silk) is thick and transluscent. "It already looks like I came on you," D said, as he began to stroke and tease me.

We were working from a plan that would allegedly lead to a 30 minute orgasm. We were both skeptical, but the allure of the goal was too great. And certainly the process would still be fun, even if I didn't come for half an hour.

D warmed me up with about five minutes of pussy stroking that infrequently and barely grazed my clit and entrance. Just lots of touching everything else. My internal lips were so sensitive, and I felt the arousal build. He then progressed to slow, rhythmic circles of my clit, as I began to do deep kegels, synched with belly breathing. It was yogic and hypnotic for a bit.

And then it wasn't. There was a rush from deep in my belly as the first orgasm approached. Following our plan, D switched from clit stroking to hard fingering, first with two, then three fingers. I continued to clench and unclench the muscles of my cunt, but lost the breathing as I came. After the orgasm began to abate, D switched back to my clit, and the arousal cycle began all over again, but from a much higher plateau.

My left hand gripped the towel beneath me, as though to anchor me down. As the next wave of orgasms began I could no longer focus on kegels or breathing, just on the feeling of D's hand and my spasming pussy. We worked through the cycle several more times, with the time between orgasms growing shorter. I jumped from the bed to grab my nipple clamps and add them to the mix. Silly not to have thought of them sooner. After we quickly ramped up again, it was clear that I had moved into a state of near-continuous orgasm. D switched to fingers inside only.

"I need more. Fill me up," I begged. It took four fingers. Four fingers that worked away inside me as I writhed ecstatically for the next dozen minutes or so. The towels were a good idea, as I squirted and trickled several times. He said that at one point he thought I was going to cry. I remember that point, and I was. Because it was a wholly new and overwhelming experience.

"It's been half an hour," D said. But I was nowhere near finished. There's no easy comedown from that sort of pleasure.

"Can you try to fist me?" I asked. This has been our leading unfulfilled act, something that intrigued and seduced me months ago, yet we've never been able to fully fist. I love the feeling of deep penetration. Of being completely filled. Of hard, fast fingers moving inside me. Of fingers alongside a cock in my aching pussy. This topic has been well-covered.

All four fingers went back in and then the pressure started. The pressure that I have been unable to bear in the past. The pressure that kept D's hand from finding its home deep inside me. Today I was able to work with the pressure, and while it was hard at times I didn't fight it.

Suddenly I felt intense rubbing deep inside and realized that D had pushed all the way in and was rotating his hand within my cunt. The unfamiliar feeling shocked and frightened me momentarily and suddenly became painful. I carefully slid myself off his hand. We talked for a moment about what had happened, and realizing that it was too much, too fast, proceeded again. I am proud of us for not letting the hiccup stop all forward motion, as it might have done in past scenarios.

This time his hand slid in more easily and I began to buck against him, trying to feel as much penetration as possible. With his free hand he began to circle my clit again, and the orgasm came almost immediately. We played with that for a bit as I continued to fuck his hand. Honestly, I was lost in the moment and I cannot describe the feelings with any details. Full. Powerful. Intimate. Joyful. He said that after I came (which time??) I relaxed further, allowing him to open his fingers. A final squirting orgasm signaled the end.

D removed his hand from me slowly as we marveled at what had finally happened. And despite, or possibly because of, the lengthy stimulation, I was still ready for a good fuck. Which we got. And even though a cock is smaller than a hand, I still orgasmed again from the penetration.

Yes, it is possible to give a 30 minute orgasm. But fair warning. It could just be the start of something big.

*This activity was inspired by a Men's Health UK article on the 30 minute orgasm. It was a challenge we just couldn't pass up, and we are very glad we didn't!


18 comments:

  1. As I've said before, I have one big orgasm, then am done. After it, my clit is sensitive beyond sensitive; I can't imagine immediately going right back to it. Is yours like this after you have an orgasm? If so, how do you manage the intensity, which for me, is almost painful?

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    1. Hi Mia - I'm gonna jump in here on this one. I used to be like that where I couldn't handle any sensation after the one orgasm. Occasionally this still happens to me. What I found is I need more of a balance of clit + vaginal stimulation to take some of the focus off of the clit. Then I need less clit stimulation so it doesn't get as sensitive. Another issue is taking a little break from the clit after the orgasm or pulling off the clit right as the orgasm comes, but moving to the vagina or lips or somewhere else to keep the arousal somewhat up but not nearly as much. I don't know if any of that will help but its worked for me. The first times I was able to have more orgasms was focusing more on vaginal stimulation with only slight clit, then I was able to keep going.

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    2. I don't have that same overstimulation feeling, but I do think it's because D switched back and forth a lot. I only feel that way after a vibrator orgasm, where the vibe was in direct clit contact. I will reach that point after a ton of manual clit stim, though. It just takes me longer, I guess?

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  2. Wow, sounds absolutely mind blowing - will have to try it (when I get the time!!!)

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    1. It was! Amazing. Highly recommend.

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  3. As usual, you guys are inspiring trailblazers. We need to do all that. But one towel will never be enough....

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    1. We had 2 towels, but I tend to miss them anyway. Bad aim. And always happy to blaze a trail toward sexual fulfillment!

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  4. Liza - this post was worth the wait! I really need to try this... maybe this weekend. Thanks so much for posting this!

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    1. Have fun! And it will feel amazing even if the 30 min. orgasm doesn't materialize.

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  5. We read the article at Men's Health and we hope to give it a try. Jill typically has several orgasms of varying magnitudes, but we are both very intrigued by the idea of near-continuous orgasm. She's gone for several minutes having one after the other, but never anything quite like what's described in the article.

    We were very excited to hear mention of your fisting adventure the other morning on Twitter, and we're glad to now have an exciting recap of the entire evening. We've long been fans of fisting, as there are few things as intense, emotional, and intimate all at once. There's really no way to aptly describe the act to someone who has yet to experience it. But you do an amazing job. We hope that it is something you and D add to your regular sexual repertoire.

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    1. Good luck with your experiment!

      I secretly hoped this would lead to successful fisting, but I didn't want to put any pressure on it. You are right in that it's very hard to describe in a way that gets people past the whole "you want a WHAT in your pussy??" Or the worries about whether a whole hand can fit there, or how it will "ruin" your tightness, etc. I still think it's an intimidating act, as many penetrative acts can be.

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  6. Great post! I read the article as well, and have it in my favorites to try. Now I'm even more motivated! I had what I would call a continous orgasm the other day, but I can't say how long it was, because I was not really able to do anything, but it was a while (it involved a plug, and lots of clitoral and internal play). When it was all said and done, I, too, was crying. Again, great post. This is the first I've read on your blog and I'm hooked! Thanks for sharing!

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    1. It's pretty powerful stuff! Good luck and report back once you've given it a go. And glad you stopped by. I hope you keep reading.

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  7. I came about thirty seconds the other night, having a hard orgasm... I find stimulation post orgasm too much to take

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    1. If you're talking about clit stimulation, I understand. What's interesting about this is the switch from clit to internal stimulation on a sort of rhythmic basis.

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  8. What a thought provoking post - which I'll delight in repeating when opportunity allows.

    Thank you for the insights,
    Sir x

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  9. Wonderful post Liza. We did this once or twice on "accident" with some very intense, slow sessions with my husband reading my body language really well. It's great to read that there is a repeatable technique! We'll have to try again. It's AMAZING :)

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